I’m Cath!

I’m a single mom of three children, all with chutzpah and big personalities. I’m a designer and creator and planning is my super power.

I did a personality test in 2021 and my result was INFJ (check out www.16personalities.com). It hit so close to home it was eerie. But it sparked a shift in me that was impossible to ignore. I found myself with no option but to search for and return to who I used to be before life cast a shadow over me. I had been living in survival mode for far too long and things had to change.

As life tends to go though, when we ask for change, we get given the challenges to change us. The moment I made this decision, life really started to come crashing down and I found challenges at every turn.

Then at the end of 2022, my 15 year marriage ended and my whole life changed forever. I found myself devastated and overwhelmed, watching my life take a turn that I never wanted or imagined, but at the same time finally being completely powerless to do anything to save it.

Having to face the reality of divorce has taught me so much about myself. The past few years of my life have been the hardest I have ever experienced BUT through it I have rediscovered my strength, my courage, my creativity, and my purpose and most of all my peace.

I have relearned how to stop playing small, how to have the courage to try new things without worrying if I’ll fail or succeed, and how to trust my gut and just go for it.

To quote my INFJ results, as an Advocate “we often feel called to use our strengths – including creativity, imagination and sensitivity – to uplift others and spread compassion” I hope that I can do this for you…